Studies show online dating and matchmaking dating services in general are growing even in a recession. Many single men and women are logging in and attending speed dating sessions more than ever before.

There are a couple of reasons for the increase in online dating service uses. One, it is cheaper to join a service than it is to spend all kinds of money on a dinner and a bad blind date. Second, people want the comfort of being with someone in turbulent times. Having a companion to share in the fear, uncertainty and doubt can help people vent and find relief in each other.

 However, in our never ending quest to Find Mr/Mrs Right, the one under-discussed, over looked and "it can't happen to me" aspect of being on the dating service scene is your personal security. Ive partnered with Intelius, a company that provides "DateCheck", a background check to vet out and look for possible red flags in your potential mate.

1. Look for red flags. If you are contacted with online web dating and they make no reference to you or your name, it may be a "broadcast" scam going to others.

If they immediately start talking about marriage and love and showing immediate affection run really fast. Anyone asking for money for any reason is a con-man. When communicating with someone with online discreet dating service and it seems it takes days for them to respond, this may be a sign they are married.

2. When communicating with a potential mate via online dating or even in the physical world, please do not give up all your information to them until you are entirely sure they are "good". That can take weeks, but it's worth the wait. Bad guys lie, a lot. And they will keep up the ruse until they have what they need or until you are in a vulnerable place. So be discreet and keep your personal information private.

3. You've heard this before and it requires revisiting: meet your date in a populated place and drive yourself. And do it at least the first 5 times. The goal of dating service here is you want to get to know the energy of this person and what makes them tick. If simple stuff irritates them or they make racist or offensive jokes or exhibit behaviors not conducive to "healthy", move on.

 4. Be direct about going 'dutch' in regards to paying for dinner. While this may seem extreme to some, studies show an large percentage of discreet dating males still believe that when they buy a woman dinner that she "owes" him sex.

5. Take lots of pictures of them with your mobile phone and tell them you are emailing everyone in your life to show them who you are with and where you are.

 6. Get as much information about them. You ask all the questions. Get their name, address, previous address, home phone, and cell phone, place of birth, birthdate, where they work, and license plate and if you can squeeze it out of them, and I kid you not, get their Social Security number from online dating services in dating websites.

Source: http://www.expertclick.com/

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